Reza Khojasteh Mehr - Counseling Department, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran
Kolsoum Kariminejad - Counseling Department, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran
Gholamreza Rajabi - Counseling Department, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran
Dorothy O&#۰۳۹Neill - Department of Psychology, Adjunct Professor in California State University, Northridge, USA.

Introduction: As people enter a marital relationship, differences inevitably emerge. Tolerance for differences is a phenomenon that many people may experience when they get married. The current study aimed to investigate the lived experience of tolerance for differences in satisfied marriages.Method: The present study was a descriptive phenomenology psychological research. The sample consisted of ۱۱ married people who had experienced tolerance for differences and were selected in a purposeful and snowball manner in ۲۰۱۹-۲۰۲۰. A semi-structured interview was used to collect data. Data gathering continued until the data saturation stage.Results: According to the results of this study, the experience of tolerance has six constituents, which are: love and respect for spouse and family, consulting in life, division of duties and roles, understanding of differences, patience and forgiveness and support of couples' families.Conclusion: The results of the study indicated that differences and disagreements between couples do not necessarily lead to conflict, but rather, these differences are experienced as an acceptance through tolerance.

tolerance, difference, Satisfaction, Phenomenology